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Relatives, Friends and Brothers-in-Law Make Terrible Realtors

Using friends and relatives to list your home for sale is not a good idea, and may actually hurt your efforts to sell your home.

I recently ran into a situation that is apparently an all too common  occurrence.  I wanted to share some thoughts on why using friends and relatives to list your home for sale is not a good idea, and may actually hurt your efforts to sell your home.  

This past weekend I showed some prospective purchasers homes in Manalapan, NJ. They were looking for a home with four to five bedrooms, pool, one to two acres of land, and specifically an in-law suite on the first floor. 

One of the homes that they wanted to see was located in an upscale community with homes priced in the $650,000 to $800,000 price range. We made an appointment for them to see this house as well as several others in Manalapan.  This house was listed in the Monmouth MLS by a Princeton real estate agency.  My clients liked the house and had several questions about it, including which schools their children would attend.  

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I contacted the Broker since there was no information on the listing and the Broker had no idea about the schools, neighborhood or the property.  

The property was listed with an agency in a completely different market because the listing agent was a friend or relative and was giving them a break on the listing commission. As everyone realizes, this is an extremely competitive  real estate marketplace. 

Listing a home for sale with an out of market real estate agency makes absolutely no sense. The out of market Broker in this case, has no presence in Monmouth County. The sign on the property was that of an unfamiliar realty firm with a 609 area code telephone number, which is out of the area.  

Today, everyone knows or has a friend or relative who has a real estate sales license.  The majority of these friends and relatives with real estate licenses are either referral agents or have a full-time job in another field.  When you want or need to sell your home, you should seek out a full time, professional Realtor that can provide the best service and results for you. 

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Interview a Realtor that is going to actively and aggressively market your home on your behalf. Most importantly, you want a Realtor who will help you price your home correctly to sell in today's challenging housing market. Your friends and relatives that list your house at the price you tell them are really not helping you, and the relationship will probably suffer.  

In other words, find a professional Realtor who knows your market and is willing to give you the facts and tough truths, not tell you just what you want to hear.  For a complementary list of key questions you should ask a Realtor before you list your home, email: carolmazzola@aol.com, and put 10 QUESTIONS in the subject line.  Good Luck.

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